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Confidence is essential. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt. Just be yourself. Authenticity has a certain appeal. Have you ever heard the expression “Fake till you make”? If you want to succeed, be real and don’t pretend.
Let’s move on to appearance. Although no one is asking you to dress like a model for a fashion show, taking care yourself can make a big difference. Shower often, wear clean, fitted clothes and maybe spray some cologne – but don’t go overboard! You want your lady to remember you because of the charm you have, not just for how strong you smell.
In the spirit of charm and wit, let’s discuss conversation skills. It’s half the battle won if you can hold a good conversation. Listen to her responses and ask open-ended questions. Do not just nod if she mentions that she enjoys hiking. Ask her about her favourite trails or share an amusing story of your own hiking misadventures.
Another ace in your sleeve is humor. Women appreciate a guy that can make them smile. If you’re not funny, don’t worry. Funny jokes and lighthearted stories will help to open the door.
Remember that your body language can also speak volumes. Do not stare, but maintain eye contact. Smile often. It is contagious.
So you have the basics mastered: confidence in appearance, communication skills, humor and body language. Now what? Now it’s time for action!
Make yourself known, literally. Join clubs or groups you’re interested in. Whether it’s cooking classes, book clubs, or anything else you like to do. This will help you meet women with similar interest.
Use social media wisely. It’s not just about cat videos and memes. Join discussions and pages related to hobbies. You may find someone you know in your DMs.
Online dating apps can be a good option, but you should tread carefully and not appear desperate or too eager in your messages. Prior to diving into serious topics, start off light-hearted and have fun.
Rome was not constructed in a day. Avoid rushing things. Allow relationships to grow naturally without imposing anything.
A final thought: it’s inevitable that you will be rejected. Even if you’ve tried your hardest, a person may not be interested in you. That’s fine! Do not let the failure of a relationship keep you from moving forward.